What Should You Do with Your Life? Directions and Advice

I ask a lot of people about their life plans. At least half of them tell me that they have no idea where to move and are just coasting along, not sure what to do next. Therefore, this post.

What to work on?

More ideas

How to actually work on the problem you like?

  1. Write down a shortlist of problems that seem exciting
  2. Leave 1-3 most exciting and tractable problems via pairwise comparison of problems from the shortlist (like how tournaments decide on which team is the most “exciting”)
  3. Start learning everything you need to start working on the problem via
    • MOOCs (edX and Stanford Lagunita have the absolute best ones, although you might want to simply google “how to learn x reddit”) and
      • find a tutor
      • email professors at your local university asking for help with specific problems
    • MIT OCW (see MIT Challenge by Scott H. Young) and
      • find a tutor
      • email professors at your local university asking for help with specific problems
    • See MOOCs I recommend
    • Auditing classes at your local university
    • Lambda School
    • (you could also read textbooks instead of taking MOOCs, but I personally hate textbooks)
    • (let me know if you know more great ways to learn!)
  4. Start working on a project related to the problem
  5. Produce the minimal public impressive result
  6. Share it with people working in your area (cold emails and twitter are great for this! Actually, I should expand on that — see section below)
  7. If they like it, then you’re on the right track!

Cold emails and twitter

Emailing people you don’t know can be shockingly effective.

There’s an unwritten rule that you shouldn’t do it, but if you actually provide value you can connect with almost anyone instantly and for free.

Austen Allred

Cold emails and twitter are a godsend for people who have high potential, but lack the opportunity to realize it. A few emails or tweets to a person you don’t know can literally change your life (they changed mine for sure!)

If you can demonstrate that you have high potential and/or can be useful to somebody, you should just email/tweet them and let them know about it. If you’re thinking “well, I’m not impressive enough” you’re likely wrong.

Here are two examples of my cold emails that worked: first, second. It appears that 20-50% of cold emails end up getting answered and while the experience can be nerve-wrecking and confidence-destroying, ultimately, it pays off.

Also see my Why You Should Join Twitter Right Now.

Where to find funding to work on any of these problems?

Many projects only require you to have a computer and some free time. Some actually require funding. For them, see:

And if you’re starting a company, then you can try to get more conventional VC funding.

General Advice

How to Do What You Love by Paul Graham:

Another test you can use is: always produce. For example, if you have a day job you don’t take seriously because you plan to be a novelist, are you producing? Are you writing pages of fiction, however bad? As long as you’re producing, you’ll know you’re not merely using the hazy vision of the grand novel you plan to write one day as an opiate. The view of it will be obstructed by the all too palpably flawed one you’re actually writing.

“Always produce” is also a heuristic for finding the work you love. If you subject yourself to that constraint, it will automatically push you away from things you think you’re supposed to work on, toward things you actually like. “Always produce” will discover your life’s work the way water, with the aid of gravity, finds the hole in your roof.

Dive in by Nate Soares:

In my experience, the way you end up doing good in the world has very little to do with how good your initial plan was. Most of your outcome will depend on luck, timing, and your ability to actually get out of your own way and start somewhere. The way to end up with a good plan is not to start with a good plan, it’s to start with some plan, and then slam that plan against reality until reality hands you a better plan.

There’s no speed limit. by Derek Sivers:

But the permanent effect was this: Kimo’s high expectations set a new pace for me. He taught me “the standard pace is for chumps” — that the system is designed so anyone can keep up. If you’re more driven than “just anyone” — you can do so much more than anyone expects. And this applies to all of life — not just school.

Advice for ages 10-20 by Patrick Collison:

  • To the extent that you enjoy working hard, do. Subject to that constraint, it’s not clear that the returns to effort ever diminish substantially. If you’re lucky enough to enjoy it a lot, be grateful and take full advantage!
  • Make friends over the internet with people who are great at things you’re interested in. The internet is one of the biggest advantages you have over prior generations. Leverage it.

Career advice by /u/Kinoite:

Being at the Top of B-Tier will sufficient to get you a job. But, you’re probably screwed already. And, even if you’d gotten into a better school, trying to “Win” the Best-of-B-Tier competition is a stupid waste of time and money.

Instead, you want: (1) A professional accomplishment (2) that’s not part of your classes and (3) is acknowledged by a professional in your field.

How to Get Any Job You Want (even if you’re unqualified) by Raghav Haran:

If you can prove to them that you can solve their problem, you instantly decommoditize yourself, and none of those things on paper matter as much.

Things Many People Find Too Obvious To Have Told You Already by Patrick McKenzie:

Companies find it incredibly hard to reliably staff positions with hard-working generalists who operate autonomously and have high risk tolerances. This is not the modal employee, including at places which are justifiably proud of the skill/diligence/etc of their employees. …

Weak-form efficients market hypothesis is a good heuristic for evaluating the public markets but a really, really bad heuristic for evaluating either technical or economic facts about tech companies, startups, your career, etc etc. Optimizations are possible; fruit hangs low.

A Career Cold Start Algorithm by Andrew Bosworth

Even more general advice

All the evidence-based advice we found on how to be successful in any job by Benjamin Todd on 80,000 Hours

How to Maximize Serendipity by David Perell

HOWTO: Be more productive by Aaron Swartz

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